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[–][deleted] 4 insightful - 4 fun4 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 4 fun -  (5 children)

You remind me of my Aunt, she did the same thing. I went up to a celebration of life festival for her and nobody knew she pinned her entire hope on a tumeric and cottage cheese diet. Not even her kids. I was having a good time, figured everyone had years to know she was refusing treatment and going to die. Oh no, it was apparently not common knowledge.

Imagine your mother throwing away her life on Facebook remedies and you don't even know till she's dead.

I wish you better luck Horrux.

[–]JasonCarswell[S] 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

Imagine your mother throwing away her life on Facebook remedies and you don't even know till she's dead.

Imagine your dad, a doctor, in a coma "with COVID" on ventilators (likely on Remdesivir) for three weeks until dead, then finding out from your mom 16 days after.

Had I known I might have been able to do something. Back in April 2020 we already knew ventilators were death sentences.

[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

Don't beat yourself up man, I have a feeling they wouldn't have listened to you anyways.

[–]JasonCarswell[S] 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

Don't beat yourself up man, I have a feeling they wouldn't have listened to you anyways.

I don't beat myself up. I was just comparing experiences.

Them not listening is worse than him dying.

Further insult to injury, you are correct, they wouldn't likely have listened, but there would have been a better chance then than now, after he died.

And they still believe in their establishment shit.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Further insult to injury, you are correct, they wouldn't likely have listened, but there would have been a better chance then than now, after he died.

I believe all that would have happened is you would have become further alienated from your family, the outcome would have otherwise been the same. Just one more point of conflict. I don't mean to be insensitive, but it's not an accident they didn't call you.

Tension, apprehension, and dissension have begun.

[–]JasonCarswell[S] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I believe all that would have happened is you would have become further alienated from your family, the outcome would have otherwise been the same.

Perhaps. At least I could have had the opportunity to speak with those caring for him along with my family and present them the abundance evidence that ventilators are death sentences BEFORE he died - AND suggest the other remedies that are now finally being partially acknowledged. Then at the very least I could forever say "I told you so."

I don't mean to be insensitive, but it's not an accident they didn't call you.

Yes, and no.

Yes, before 2020 I was annoying them with dystopian shit that's since come true, though it's unlikely they'll acknowledge it. Last conversation I had with my dad over a year ago was him telling me the food crises won't ever happen.

No, my dad had health problems on New Years 2021 so he was in the hospital for a week. He came home and gave COVID to my mom. He went into one hospital again, and my mom had a stroke along with the COVID and went to another hospital. I don't know the exact timeline. When she got out she called me, 16 days after he died after being on the ventilator for 3 weeks.

So it wasn't entirely neglect, so much as an accident of circumstances. It seems strange that no one had phones in the hospitals.

It also seems strange that they were planning a funeral for my dad this summer. No one ever called. I finally got a new phone, called my mom. In the walk in the park it turned into an argument before and after she showed me the memorial bench they had installed months before that overlooked the peace fountain and the Detroit Renaissance Center - and that no one had bothered to tell me about until we were upon it.

Fuck shitty family. This is not new since COVID though. Some people luck out, others don't.