Find it yourself. You just responded to the beginning of my comment about being a Jew or Jew lover. I was explaining that smokratez was calling you out, not actually trying to be funny. The desperation comes when people say things that don't conform to your worldview. It happens to the best of us. We respond with insults and try to manipulate what people say. Sometimes it doesn't work. But that's a good thing. Gives you the chance to accept things that are outside of your control. Do you think I want radfems here shitting on males and lying about the way our world is structured? Of course not. But I am at peace with their existence. I would never try to stop them, have them censored, or bully them into leaving/shutting up. There's true peace in that stance.