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    Having / growing balls is not a 'gender' or 'sexuality' question. It's obviously a figure of speech. Like my fkn is. But i mostly use in other ways bc. English is only my third learned language and i'm very grateful that i learned Latin FIRST.

    Latin is math with words, bc. no matter in which sequence you put the words the sense remains the same (almost like in any equation, if you follow the rules), because in Latin only the grammar defines it for the whole sentence. From this i got my creativity with the English grammar. But since most US-Americans don't even understand their own grammar, i can see no point in discussing my creative use of it.

    You're drawing this into a direction, i mostly don't give anything about (because i already know myself well enough in this), so this is only for clarification.

    It's everyone's personal decision how much he / she shares about his gender (identity) and / or sexuality. I don't expose neither of mine. That simple it is for me. And why the fuck should i expose friends of mine on an internet board full of trolls ? Because sme asks me in a rather desperate attempt to troll / patronize me?

    PLUS : My girl is completely with me on this. So this noob thinking AND falsely trying to hang me on his feelings bc. i wouldn't have had any friends just shows how weak he really is, imo. Just think about who attacked whom and maybe you can follow my style of debate better.

    Using controversial terms is betting on a reaction and betting on me budging is always the same as exposing yourself to me more and more for a knockout, if i don't think AND feel it is funny OR you have an ARGUMENT , which he can't show, because he has NONE. He started climbing down the pyramid with some fake-ass knowledge, he didn't even read thoroughly into.

    He just projected his feelings (mainly hate, i suppose bc. he is too lazy to read the full article i cited) on me in falsely believing i'd move away instead of going in and got a nice right short uppercut directly under his glass chin back for that. This happened bc. he thought only bc. he exposes himself, i'd do the same. If you followed this till now, you can read literally how much it hurt him bc. he tried to deflect it after this hit connected.

    Keeping just the right distance is a key in every technique of fighting, as debating most definitely is.

    Now you learned how to handle noobs that get personal because they can't handle arguments. Or not. That's up to you.

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    <Having / growing balls is not a 'gender' or 'sexuality' question. It's obviously a figure of speech. Like my fkn is. But i mostly use in other ways bc. English is only my third learned language and i'm very grateful that i learned Latin FIRST.>. Yet, you used this this figure of speech and therefore begs my statement. Well, if this is your third language congratulations, you must be of great intellect. I still wonder at your low brow figure of speech and still begs my question from an intellect, with more power...Oops I forgot the clarification < But since most US-Americans don't even understand their own grammar, i can see no point in discussing my creative use of it.>.

    Baiting can be low brow and baiting can be intellectual and the pyramid tells you which one is most acceptable, if one's goal is to be a master baiter. Now that little turn of phrase was not so low brow, but uses the same body parts as your figure of speech (its in how one present the figure and both sexes masterbate). And is more a joke upon us both than any low brow trolling of an extremist's point of view. If every post is built around cognitive dissonance, then how are you going to reach anyone on the internet that is outside you bias? I suppose you handled me like a noob, or not...thats up to you. I must be a noob, because I have no idea what "bc" means. I must be outside the in-group, therefor double noob to me.

    <In the field of psychology, cognitive dissonance occurs when a person holds two or more contradictory beliefs, ideas, or values; or participates in an action that goes against one of these three, and experiences psychological stress because of that.>. Any argument can be analyzed by this frame work even when it is a constructive debate and does not go low brow or low on the pyramid. If and only if, you write your personal truths in word, hence personal and befitting the emphasis on psychology of the individual. I don't care what group you or anyone else are within, there are group characteristics both acceptable and unacceptable...in all groupings, categorizations of humans.

    I find paradox of the mind that, which cognitive dissonance refers is a place to learn one's biases (at the least). Again, I am a noob or boob that's up to you to define by figurative writing. I already know myself and how I define me myself and I. Even the people around me don't use these words to describe me, but please feel free. I always wanted to learn Latin, dyslexia hinders my motivation.

    ...create a great day...

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    That is they great art: Getting people to read your stuff on English where almost all taboos are sexual in nature while not stepping one sme's toes at the same time. I totally agree. If i could write in German this could be very easy. But i like it, if it isn't too easy for me. That's another psychological principle whose name i forgot. It goes like this somehow: Real joy can only be achieved by putting in some sweat beforehand.

    OR: Per aspera ad astra.

    And this wasn't about you, him or me, somewhat. I thought this was obvious. I will refer to dissonance more often, because imo it explains a lot of these problems, Zuckerberg, google and co. try to solve technically, which is not possible without creating some 'favourite' narratives. That is another reason i am back here.

    With English i am still a student because it is a very fuzzy language. But i will need a better version of myself in English very soon because in my 'crew' i am the only one willing and able enough to negotiate with US-Americans. And why should we ignore all the money you are printing if you can give it to us ?