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[–]zephyranthes 10 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

What's surprising? Both situations prioritize the bad partner over the decent partner.

The homosexual partner comes out because he/she wants to divorce or cheat: he/she is the one breaking up the relationship, and the spouse is expected to be nice during the breakup. The trans partner comes out because he/she wants the spouse to submit to his/her fetish, and the spouse is expected to submit.