Married straight man puts on lipstick, dress, and fake boobs and tries to get his wife to have "lesbian sex" with him. Fetish gradually consumes his life, and she's horrified.

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[–]a_blue_bird 26 insightful - 7 fun26 insightful - 6 fun27 insightful - 7 fun -  (2 children)

I need help having lesbian sex with my husband.

LOL. I mean, this has to be a troll post, right?

Also, about the commenters who write

OP is straight. She and her SO need to accept this and try to move on from each other.

Do they actually imagine that she is not attracted to her husband in a wig because she is ''straight''? And a gay woman would be into that? Come on. The relationship is failing because he has a fetish, and to a regular person this type of a fetish is very hard to deal with.

[–]gendercritfem[S] 20 insightful - 3 fun20 insightful - 2 fun21 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah if only she was a lesbian, you know, since lesbians love having sex with straight men with lesbian fetishes /s

[–]food_hater 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

i think it's mostly that your average straight woman is not going to find any feminine features (even artificial) attractive on their partners. it's not that she's perceiving her husband as female it's probably that the contrast of "feminine" traits (makeup, fake breasts, women's clothing) on her husband's male body throws her off and maybe even disgusts her.

[–]artetolife 21 insightful - 4 fun21 insightful - 3 fun22 insightful - 4 fun -  (1 child)

This is something that really baffles me about trans people. If a partner in a straight relationship comes out as lesbian or gay, it's assumed they will break up. Nobody expects either partner to continue a sexual relationship. But when someone comes out as trans the partner is encouraged or even shamed into becoming gay or lesbian and supporting their new wife/husband on their transition journey.

[–]zephyranthes 10 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

What's surprising? Both situations prioritize the bad partner over the decent partner.

The homosexual partner comes out because he/she wants to divorce or cheat: he/she is the one breaking up the relationship, and the spouse is expected to be nice during the breakup. The trans partner comes out because he/she wants the spouse to submit to his/her fetish, and the spouse is expected to submit.

[–]GConly 19 insightful - 3 fun19 insightful - 2 fun20 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

Hi OP, I just want you to hear that what you're feeling is valid. You're a straight woman. You're not attracted to other women, and now your husband is a woman.

Gimme a break. It's still a man. She's just not into him looking and acting that way.

[–]gendercritfem[S] 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

why can none of these commenters understand this? It's not that she's creeped out because she's straight, it's that she's creeped out that her husband is trying to wear her skin for some kind of creepy womanhood fetish.

[–]LasagnaRossa 15 insightful - 2 fun15 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

yOurE nOt AtTraCteD tO hEr BecAuSe YouRe StrAiGht

Dude, I'm bi and I would react in the same way if my boyfriend wanted to wear a wig and a skirt when we have sex. A man all pimped up is not a woman, and not everyone who is attracted to males like feminine men.

That's it. It is very simple.

[–]luckystar 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

God that thread is depressing. It's always the same story with the AGPs: Man is married for years, even decades, then announces he's a woman, suddenly the family finances now revolve around "affirming" his fetish, he acts crueler and more narcissistic than ever before, he casts aside his own kids accusing them of being "transphobic" i.e. not elated about dad living a fetish 24/7 and wasting their college funds on inverting his penis, the wife tries to accommodate for a time but ultimately breaks down (unless you're Amanda Jette Knox), dad -- oh i mean "mom", we must be accepting & affirming after all -- makes a new group of friends who are fellow AGPs that drag him further into the cult and convince him that his whole family is in the wrong, not him.

In that thread there are MULTIPLE other posters talking about how their former husband or father acts like this.

How can anyone deny AGP is a thing?

[–]gendercritfem[S] 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Trans men: I was really ashamed of being gay and people always reacted badly when I acted masculine, but now that I've transitioned, I can dress and act how I want!

Trans women: I want to put on my wife's lipstick and pretend we're having lesbian sex.