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[–]Apricot_Ibex 36 insightful - 3 fun36 insightful - 2 fun37 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

“What a messed up thing to say to a trans woman.”

No, it’s messed up that TIMs expect lesbians to accept their “girldick” in the first place. Why do transbians never date EACH OTHER?

[–]yousaythosethings 28 insightful - 4 fun28 insightful - 3 fun29 insightful - 4 fun -  (2 children)

This is what happens when you bastardized the meaning of words like male vs female and masculine vs feminine. She means you don’t act like a woman, much less a lesbian, because you’re using your penis dude. No need to dig any deeper to understand. You can’t have feminine or masculine lesbian sex when you have penis. Love the comments that are basically like “I’m bi and I have no sense of what sex the person I’m fucking is.”

I would say that I don’t understand how detached these people’s minds are from their bodies, but I actually do get that. The difference is, I can recognize it’s not healthy and is a problem to be worked on.

[–]gendercritfem[S] 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

I would say that I don’t understand how detached these people’s minds are from their bodies, but I actually do get that.

What do you mean?

[–]yousaythosethings 14 insightful - 3 fun14 insightful - 2 fun15 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

A lot of people have mental health conditions, often as a result of trauma, that cause them to dissociate, some more severely than others. The way a lot of trans people and their craziest allies talk about sexual attraction and sexual orientation is totally disembodied and reeks of dissociation. Also, I’m sure many are virgins.

[–]FediNetizen 20 insightful - 2 fun20 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

"What a messed up thing to say to a trans woman", "You're better off without her"

Interesting that these guys seem to have this belief that a relationship is this thing where you partners only bends themselves to your needs while ignoring their own.

[–]3MistersAndAMissy 15 insightful - 5 fun15 insightful - 4 fun16 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

This IS clownworld!!

A third are saying she MUST have meant something other than that he fucks like a dude.

A third are saying to burn her as a witch for her heresies.

The rest are all waxing philosophic about how you can’t assign certain attributes to a person based on chosen gender......so how DO you define a woman if it isn’t biology, declared lesbianism, or gender identity?

Born like a duck, surely looks like a duck, and now fucks like a duck.

IT’S A DUCK!!!

[–][deleted] 6 insightful - 4 fun6 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Oh that's funny lol