My cousin is now a Transbian TIM.

submitted by TrotRadFemAlly from self.itsafetish

So it turns a cousin of mine is now a transbian TIM. I found this out when I decided to check his Instagram (I wanted to see how he was doing during the ongoing outbreak) and saw that he had posts like "I just want everyone to know that I'm a transbian, have a nice day!" and "Trans Lesbians (like me) are real lesbians. Deal with it.😎" I already know he's quite a weeb-y guy and that he and his friends would "joke" about having hentai addictions (which is why I suspect he has animesickness and pornsickness). His parents are typical libfems and are allowing to him cross-dress and said that they would allow him to go on HRT. I don't know what to do and I'm scared of how he could damage himself mentally & physically. What should I do?

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[–]artetolife 25 insightful - 1 fun25 insightful - 0 fun26 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

If you two aren't close enough for him to tell you about his transition then he's probably not going to listen to anything you say about it, to be blunt. Just hope he doesn't turn into one of the nightmare people featured on here.

[–]Shinjin_Nana 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Honestly don't let him eat your life. Disengage, set up boundaries, and ignore the fuck out of it.

[–]LeaveAmsgAfterBeep 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

My prediction is quarantine will make more transbians and more detransitioned women. It directly correlates to social circles and how much time one group spends alone with porn.

[–]gendercritfem 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

My advice is to show him this saidit sub, or the archives from the old itsafetish reddit. Show him pictures of hons in dresses. Tell him that his is what he's going to become, and ask him if that's what he wants to be. Autogynephilia works on the fantasy of being a woman, once you show him that he's just going to look like an ugly guy in a dress and nobody will actually see him as a woman, he'll probably desist.