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[–]AdultFemaleHuman 23 insightful - 1 fun23 insightful - 0 fun24 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

That’s macabre. I worry for this individual’s mental health.

[–]FediNetizen 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

macabre

I do not think it means what you think it means.

Edit: Nevermind, turns out when I looked the term up several months ago I had looked at the Oxford definition, but the Merriam-Webster definition does include "tending to produce horror in a beholder" as one of the three use cases, so your usage was actually correct. My apologies.

[–]Shinjin_Nana 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

macabre

"The macabre works to emphasize the details and symbols of death. The term also refers to works particularly gruesome in nature."

A mentally ill man simulating a women's menses because he's mentally ill? gruesome? I could see that.

[–]FediNetizen 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Hmm, I had heard the word before and my initial impression was that it was wrong (and the definition I got from google seemed to confirm this), but after your reading I did some more digging. It seems there's a bit of a discrepancy between how Oxford Dictionary defines the term, and how Merriam-Webster defines it.

Under the Oxford definition (the one I was familiar with), her use doesn't fit, but under the 3rd Webster definition (tending to produce horror in a beholder), it works, because hearing about some dude using fake blood to simulate a period could be considered horrifying.

[–]lavender_menace 21 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Why starve? What is the reason those individuals starve themselves in relation with menstruations?

[–]PenseePansy 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This is what I was wondering too! Whereas, most of the time, I can follow their "logic" (dopey as it is), the supposed connection between menstruation and "starving yourself" totally eludes me.

Is it that they think our period makes us physically exhausted/hungry? Or that depriving themselves of food makes guys bleed from their butt or something?

Can anyone explain this famished dude = menstruating woman reasoning? Cuz I'm baffled.

[–]Debaser 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Jesus. I thought I had heard it all.

Complete fantasists. They live in a "yes" world with ever decreasing barriers to their obsession, Drs say yes to medication and surgery, their echo chamber of constant validation, LGB people fooled by the smokescreen and fear of being labelled a bigot...

But they cannot fool themselves and feel left out by actual menstruators.

Solution: put fake blood on a pad.

Wtf.

[–]threefingersam 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This guy really needs therapy. Not fake therapy to get asspats, but a therapist that addresses his deep-seated issues. This behavior is extremely abnormal ._.

[–]radstagdoe 18 insightful - 2 fun18 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

And then what does he do with the ‘bloody’ pad? Starr at it? Throw it away? Put it in his underwear? Wtf?

[–]lavender_menace 11 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

he wrote wear it, so I guess put it in his underwear and walk around like that for the rest of the day.

[–][deleted] 14 insightful - 3 fun14 insightful - 2 fun15 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

Women, can you imagine the hours he spent trying to re-create menstrual blood? (as if he knows what it is/looks like in the first place).

No, me either.

AGP all day.

[–]shveya[S] 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Lol I had the same thought. He probably doesn't know about the consistency or clots.

[–]LasagnaRossa 12 insightful - 4 fun12 insightful - 3 fun13 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Hah, yes, that feeling of "I wish I had periods and that blobby feeling between my legs" that every woman has.

[–]PassionateIntensity 11 insightful - 4 fun11 insightful - 3 fun12 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Bring back kink-shaming.

[–][deleted] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I... This is why this is a mental illness.