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[–][deleted] 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (7 children)

She used to be a pretty girl too. I don't know how people can encourage this. For every real honest to goodness trapped in the wrong gender person (assuming there are some) there are so many pedos, kinksters, and innocent kids who just get caught up in the fad.

[–]Node 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

There are no innocents. It's the prime responsibility of all living entities to act in their own best interests. There's no forgiveness or 'do-overs' for moronic acts that endanger or end ones continued existence.

And outside of human interference with a child or infant, no one is trapped in a body of the wrong sex.

[–]Noam_Chomsky 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

There's no forgiveness or 'do-overs' for moronic acts that endanger or end ones continued existence.

Forgiveness is always an option.

In this case, it's up to those unfortunate people who suffer from self-induced injuries.

They still have an opportunity to forgive themselves.

They still have an opportunity to ask for forgiveness from those who tried to help them, but were rejected.

Confront the demons. Rise above it.

Then atone. Rescue others who are lost inside themselves.
Show them how to find the way forward; when they're ready..

LPT.

[–]Node 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I meant 'forgiveness' in the sense of forgiving a loan, where the need for repayment is canceled and wiped clean.

Once you cut your tits or dick off, it's pretty hard to revert to the 'before' state. Those malfunctioning people can acknowledge what they've done to themselves, but they can't restore their missing parts.

They still have an opportunity to ask for forgiveness from those who tried to help them, but were rejected.

They made their decision. Are they now saying they're not qualified to make decisions about their own life? Sounds like yet another episode in a continuing series of self-dishonorments.

[–]Noam_Chomsky 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Agreed. Dismemberment is irreversible.

[–]jet199[S] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

There's no one trapped in the wrong gender.

I myself was desperate to be a boy my whole childhood but the feeling completely disappeared at 16. This is completely normal for gender non conforming kids. Sexuality and gender (personality as well) are established over the whole process of growing up and the hormones involved, not just at birth. Even the ones who don't desist at puberty usually find they can live as gender non conforming adults just fine without being trans.

They usually only become trans if abuse is involved as they blame their bodily sex for attracting their abusers. One famous HSTS in the UK just public a whole book about him being a rent boy being passed around and raped by adult men at 14. Another HSTS I speak to has said he was raped twice by gay men before he transitioned and has had no problems since so no way is he going back to presenting as male even through he knows now he's not born in the wrong body.

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

There's no one trapped in the wrong gender

Maybe. I allow it may be present in the really rare ones, the intersex, and the thai/ pinoy lady bois doing it before it was a social fad/kink. Could happen.

They usually only become trans if abuse is involved as they blame their bodily sex for attracting their abusers

The girl my niece dated, I always always suspected she wanted to be a boy because getting tits and unwanted attention from boys scared her.

[–]jet199[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Intersex people aren't trans.

Ladyboys are gay men in a homophobic society.