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[–]jet199 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's not at all irrelevant. Having a disabled kid is a huge outlay of time, energy and labour for no return. It can very much kill a person's plans and ambitions and fuck up their other kid's chances too.