Hispanic Fellow Beats to Death Two Year Old Daughter of his Girlfriend

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https://kdhnews.com/news/crime/killeen-man-sentenced-to-life-in-prison-for-capital-murder-of-child-in-temple/article_440626ae-35ae-11ec-945b-7f246d39b334.html

This has updates. Mom knew he was hitting her daughter, and was present when he beat her to the point of fatal abdominal trauma, and choked her past the point of turning blue. This was dismissed by mom until the child woke up later, as the woman evidently let her sleep afterwards, and the police weren't called until 2:49am.

This woman knew that her boyfriend was abusing her children and stayed. What is this a product of?

[–]Richard_Parker[S] 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (5 children)

Going to read this now, without reading, I can tell you the problem is women slutting otmit, single moms, etc. This happened bc the bf is not the daughter's father. The destruction of the family has done more to destroy quality of life and destroy lives.....

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It's extremely important to remember that aggression and abuse of children is not racially specific. We have no idea if the father of the child was abusive as well, abandoned the scene during pregnancy, or if the woman was cheating. There's just no way to know unless we're told. Unfortunately, abuse is far too common and was even an issue (one might say even more of an issue) during the 50s with fewer protections against it. This happened/happens even within nuclear family units.

This brings up an interesting question. What laws would a society that your sub poses to create have for situations of abuse within the nuclear family unit?

[–]Richard_Parker[S] 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

It's extremely important to remember that aggression and abuse of children is not racially specific. We have no idea if the father of the child was abusive as well, abandoned the scene during pregnancy, or if the woman was cheating

I find this irritating. Did you see any of Mokyneux's content on this stuff? Vast majority of child abuse comes from boyfriends or step dad's,this is in part because a natural father has an evolutionary drive to see after his own, whereas someone who is not father does not. Just bc child abuse does happen from white men who are still married does not change the fact it is much less common overall.

However this specific sorry goes on down, it will invarisbly demonstrate that single motherhood and the no dissolution of the family has been a very bad idea. If the father was a drug addict or catted around with no other women, those are just other commonplace vices in this sick society that doomed this child.

I would like to know more about why women do not protect older born children to boyfriends or his hands who had children later, but I think this little girl was an only child. My own sordid history involves half siblings, favoritism from the woman I was born into in favor of them etc (have ceased contact log ago, only call ehr by her first name)

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A natural father may have an evolutionary drive to protect their biological children, but that doesn't necessarily stop people from being shitty and broken. A natural mother should have that drive as well, but god knows how many historical cases of infanticide there have been. Evolution is one thing, but mental illnesses and the nurture aspect of psychology are a whole different egg.

The "daddy went to get some milk" meme has been around for ages, and abandonment of responsibility during pregnancy has led to some pretty disgusting outcomes too. We don't exactly live in a society where taking responsibility for our actions is rarely rewarded anymore (obviously this depends on personal moral systems), and actively thrown lots of opportunities as an easy way to escape, that unfortunately ends up including children. The modern world is absolutely fucked in that aspect.

I would like to know more about that too. Nope. Unfortunately in the link that I sent you, it states that he was known for hitting the little girl's sister too. Man, I get it. I had a busted ass early childhood too. My parents were married, but my mother was 17 and turned towards alcoholism. I spent a few occasions at the neighbor's house with them both getting shitfaced and remember being burned with a cigarette by some asshole, among other blisteringly wonderful times of parental neglect. You can imagine I don't have a relationship with her anymore either. I had an alternative though, and got out by the grace of my grandparents, of which my grandfather was not mine biologically. He's the one that chose to take me in and I've seen him as a father and positive role model, despite his flaws, ever since. I have a bias towards step fathers and step grandfathers being a positive presence, and I believe that men can grow to love children despite them not biologically being their's. We hear more about the gruesome stories that end badly than the good though.

[–]Richard_Parker[S] 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

I will reply at greater length soon. For now, no one is disputing natural fathers or families in wedlock also do bad things, but the numbers are heavily skewed, not unlike 12/56. There is also something about women losing maternal instincts with offspring from previous father when she woke bonds with another. I was searching on stuff about how bad half sibling relationships can be and it turns out mothers typically favor the younger children born to the current husband (or boyfriend), so it seems the union with the father needs to be in fact to keep that maternal instinct strong. So many of our social ills mstem from this idea that women should be allowed to do whatever they want with their bodies, slut it up, kill their offspring or have babies with two or more men. In a proper society's neither men nor women can do whatever they want. Individualism had to be constrained for the greater good.

Sorry about your familial background. I too was effectively raised by my grandparents. My memory of them is ambivalent. Took me in, very generous in certain respects but very stingy and miserly in other, perhaps more important respects. Their son who is a doctor cut off contact years ago, efforts to connect with him via correspondence were not entirely encouraging, as neuroticism just leaps from his letters and emails.. Their daughter became the woman I was born from so they have to bear some responsibility.

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I think there's more to it than simply the times of woke influence. That's a huge contributor, but I think that the social issues are exacerbated by environmental exposures to various substances that knock the normalcy and homeostasis of the human body out of whack, along with promoting mental illness and various health maladies that can contribute towards health/behavioral health problems.

Both of us could have fell down much worse pathways and not necessarily came out on top and sane. If nothing else, I almost think it's better to just consider the emotional/psychological damage the battlescars of a terrible fate avoided, and a series of lessons on what not to do.