I am unaware of any women who are articulating means by which #1 and #2 can be achieved (am I just out of the loop?)

Yes, you are out of the loop.

However I doubt that many women are going to pipe up on the internet to say "here is what you must do to get us to happily have kids". Even the Level 1 Manospherians know that the game does not work that way.

Yeah that's what I thought too. It's a huge sphere and hopefully growing.