Ok, understandable. Usually someone wants to feel appreciated and cares about for something aside from their ability to pay for shit, and don't want to be the final option. I'm still slightly confused as to how this is an issue that's across the board though. Wouldn't it be easier to avoid that once you're aware of what you don't want with dating? People here are sort of all over the place income and education-wise, and tend to intermix-- but it's not a large city. I've encountered that specific type of woman here, but they're kind of in a sea of others and easy to not have anything to do with.