There are definitely a lot of authentic dudes in the DR/AR/WN who have a pathological hatred of coal burners.

With all due respect I don't see it. You have to realize that our movement is highly infiltrated by Israeli and US intelligence disinformation. Many posts that rant about coal burners are not genuine. Most people in the alt right that hate coal burners hate them because they are degenerate and hedonic and not because they race mix. White women are the least likely racial group to race mix. Burning coal is a forced meme. This endless lionization of blacks by jew media is having an impact on some women but again it's marginal.

I've always said that the first redpill is gender not race. You can't be a committed white nationalists while still being blue pilled on women. Getting hung up because some cute white teen girl posts a picture of herself in a swimming pool with 5 blacks guys is blue pilled. It's weak. It's a misunderstanding of female nature. She's not in the pool because she likes black men. She's in the pool because social media gives her points for being there. There's no reason to hate women for who they are.

All women, including white women, are going to be promiscuous if they aren't controlled by powerful moral institutions. Women are getting more loose because Jews break apart the fabric of any healthy community that gives them shelter. That's what white nationalists hate. They hate the betrayal. They hate the subversion. They hate people without honor. The occasional race mixing is a symptom of a Jewish disease. Even some of the most verbose anti coal burners like Azmador express more nuanced views about the topic on closer inspection.

It reeks of insecurity and sexual jealousy.

That's why Jews push such perceptions. They know whites are high trust and honor bound so they do their best to shape dissidents into 'incels' and women haters and many whites lap it up.

That is the vibe it gives to 'normies' and it drives away women from the movement to accuse them all of being coal-burning sluts.

This is a serious misunderstanding. The dissident right doesn't want women in the movement. That would be suicide. We want fit, intelligent, goal oriented men that would die before being dishonored. We want men that are willing to sacrifice themselves for something bigger. When a revolution gains enough able bodied men willing to resist tyranny then women become a trivial matter.

because the vast majority of white women don't go for blacks or other non-white men

I think we are in agreement on this.

Most of the women I see with mixed offspring are not exactly Aryan beauty queens

Again, nobody is disagreeing with you here.

Many would not, though.

I think you are falling for a lot of outside manufactured perceptions of white nationalists. Obviously we oppose race mixing but we don't walk around in a constant state of bitter jealous rage about it.