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[–]jet199 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

Apparently in cultures outside the anglosphere toddlers don't have the "terrible twos" because they aren't given choices.

If they aren't allowed multiple choices they can't get stressed over them.

We basically are asking these kids to constantly operate on a level of intelligence far above their capabilities and responsibility and then wonder why they breakdown.

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Instead of open ended questions like "what do you want to eat," it's recommended you stick to an either/or instead, e.g. "would you like tuna casserole or spaghetti?"

I haven't tried it on a toddler, but it works on women.

[–]jet199 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Tits or face?