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[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (6 children)

Oh my god I'm so sorry.

He was surrounded by masked faces,

That bothers me. No family, no human contact. Dying in front of masked strangers. Fuck.

However, death is as natural as birth, and no less sad

Births are sad?

Who cares if it's natural, apple seeds are natural. Bolts of lightning are natural. Don't mean you want em hurting you.

It's different if your grand father lived a good long life. It's not all black and white. If someone dies at 80 I don't feel too bad for em, that's a decent life.

I don't know, my wife lost her father to a brain fungus (yeah seriously) young. That still affects me. She was hurt bad. And you can't fix it. Fuck. Well, that's enough depressing shit for one evening.

[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (5 children)

See, that's my gripe with modernists, death is something that depresses you if you ever find yourself discussing it or dwelling on it. That's why you guys never figure anything out about it. What do you have to be sorry for?

[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

What do you have to be sorry for?

I feel for your loss.

I find myself much happier when I don't dwell so I try not to. Maybe I'm missing out on greater truths but it's not worth being miserable for.

[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

I really appreciate it, Muskrat. How old are you? Next time, just say "I feel for your loss." You have nothing to apologize for, my guy.

I would say that you would be less miserable after discovering the greater truths, but I am definitely biased in this regard. I didn't answer one of your last questions, I'm sorry. Birth is sometimes sad (not because of any physical problems with the birth, although that is always horrible to hear about or experience, this coming from experience) and that's because many people are born into life and they never once acknowledge the precious, life-affirming moments in life, and they become nihilistic and half-cynical, or they become drone-like. As the great band Toto says in their song I'll Be Over You, they say: "Some people live their dreams, Some people close their eyes, Some people's destiny, Passes by."

I would fix that and say: Most people ignore their life-affirming destiny and accept the life-negating one that is easier. As you said, it's not worth being miserable for most people, even if it is only for a season.

[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

I'm 40.

You like Air Supply? That Toto song reminded me of them. Quintessential 80s.

As a child I was fascinated by death and dying. I was a smart little fucker. Too smart. It made me anxious, depressed, and miserable. Luckily I have managed to kill many of those pesky brain cells that were making me unhappy. I'll leave the deep thinking to those better able to deal with it.

[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

You are an interesting fellow, Muskrat.

[–]JasonCarswellPlatinum Foil Fedora 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

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