Frankly, I think the non-religious can easier get along with the religious than vice versa.

To the religious, the non-religious are basically rule-breakers. Disbelievers. Doomed to a negative afterlife who must be saved/converted/exterminated (pick a religion). Getting the religious to tolerate and accept the non-religious is practically a sin in some religions.

So good luck getting around that. I think you & I are closer in our opinions here than you think so Merry Christmas, etc.