Lol, oops - so somehow I just now saw your comment and A) I had to Google "pua sarged" and B) while I was looking it up, btw fully thinking initially that it was "some video game term", I therefore did learn something today through this googling, so thank you, BUT drumroll C) (while my life is at least calmer now, it is still affected) I actually WISH it had been that "simple" of an experience (disclaimer: as simple as my superficial research into "sarging" indicated)! Lol, and while I could (humor myself and) draw either tenuous or rabbithole comparisons to related situations... really there was a lot lot more to my situation, which I'm at least calmer about now but I am still bitter... Aaaand perhaps I was being a liiittle bit dramatic, but I DID get (social/emotionally) backstabbed so I dunno, hopefully next time I just won't get backstabbed and then I won't have to figure out how not to be dramatic and weird...ah well. I re-read my long comment above and it's fine...lol I'm just clearly growing into my grown up woke insanity brain ;-P and I still believe in the evil out there being realer than I knew before.

(Sorry for this 2 weeks later rant, perhaps you were just joking which actually works too because I did get a little chuckle when I Googled it, however then I also got a little creeped out by what I read, and, by then, it was either I do more background/context research to understand or (my chosen option) I just backed off knowing that it's not something I care to know about much past tbe urban dictionary, haha)