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[–]indeepshadows 11 insightful - 6 fun11 insightful - 5 fun12 insightful - 6 fun -  (3 children)

I left a comment asking "why are you excluding bi women from your dating pool?"

Let's see how long it will take until I'm banned lol

[–]indeepshadows 8 insightful - 3 fun8 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

Aww, the op deleted the post rather than answered me. What a shame.

[–]yousaythosethings[S] 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Considering that they replied to the hugboxing comments, the fact that they didn’t respond to your comment at all or even backtrack to pretend like they meant to include bi women speaks volumes.

Even with the wave of additional hugbox comments still NONE of them are lesbians. Their post histories quickly reveal them all to be Pan, bi, and/or trans themselves. The lack of validation from actual lesbians should tell them all they need to know. Plus “streetwalker” isn’t exactly a look that screams femme lesbian to sapphic women.

At the same time, I’m glad real lesbians are leaving Reddit.

[–]indeepshadows 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Shit, were all the responders non-lesbian? They really should have specified they're not lesbian if they're on a lesbian sub.

Actually, that makes me really angry. What the hell are they doing, speaking over lesbians like that? That's really fucking harmful, though I'll bet most of them just wanted to be nice.

But anyway, you're right. The op's silence and subsequent deletion of the post really speaks volumes.