I strongly believe the L needs to be removed from the alphabet soup. The rest of the letters have never done anything to HELP lesbians, it seems like they all want to speak for us and then erase us. I'm so damn done with bi-curious/supposed late-bloomer-lesbians talking for us as well. I've been in groups where they DO talk to transbians like we lesbians are just going to feel sorry for them and accept them into our homes and beds with no problem and that they are "valid." I'm sick of everybody expecting me to be used to make transbians not feel bad about who they are. I want a mutual partner who isn't super fucked up in the head. Is that really so wrong? And yes, they usually ARE fucked in the head. Even if they can be self-confident and feel happy with themselves after transitioning, I would still have to put up with their lifetime of male conditioning which includes things such as a feeling of dominance toward all women, massive amounts of entitlement, and having everything handed to them just because they had a peepee and balls.

And what is this one's problem with lesbians who are butch or in the middle? I'm a relatively femme lesbian and am pretty damn mad that this one feels entitled to only femmes, obviously it's a fetish for him. And yes, "him," this is a man and he will always be one.

Fuck all this shit, I wish I could live in a world where I can just be a woman who loves other women, without this garbage always trying to get in my way.