You know that hetero women are biologically programmed to be attracted to all the gross bits of men, right? The body hair, smells and dangly bits are part and parcel. Attraction is subjective or we'd probably die out, and one person's trash is another person's treasure. Testosterone is fucking great. I've had on and off issues with clinically low testosterone levels as a woman since late teen years, and there's definitely benefits to having it vs being deficient. Estrogen dominance sucks ass.

There's benefits to being either sex, depending on how you're looking at things. Basing your existence on how many swipes you get on a hookup app is an easy path towards self loathing.