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    [–]TwerKing[S] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

    Non-korean changs (mainly filipinos and chinese) were slaying big time long before korean men slay big time today. Be also mindful, there was no social media back then to quickly record such mixed relationships like how you can now. Photography was a new technology with little prevalance, while painting portraits were ubiquitous where customers had to pose for a couple of hours, so this process was long and tedious, and not fun for most.

    Fast forward during modern times, even more so previous to the explosion of the hallyu wave, southeast asian changs in general slayed xfs, and continue to do so currently. Take a careful look at the submitted page of my account if you don't believe me. Lol. Southeast asian dudes barely needed or didn't really need "media soft power" because southeast asian dudes are a walking live soft power embodiment unto themselves. Many east asian-american dudes seem to not yet caught on about this fact or probably do know but won't admit because they likely hold some racist attitude towards them, passed down or influenced by several of their east asian relatives who think lowly of southeast asians because southeast asia is underdevloped, not fully industrialized, and lacking modernity.

    What's happening with people seeing korean changs and xfs these days is called recent-memory bias or something like that. Social media addiction contributes a lot to this biased recollection as it regularly reminds people anywhere they could bring their smart devices to indulge, largely thanks to those platforms.

    Unfortunately, it seems unchanged in other Asian nations, still see more non Asian foreign men than women.

    This one is somewhat accurate but still kind of iffy. Really depends on which country we're talking about. Keep in mind however that a few southeast asian countries where xmaf were usually known to be dominant, even within these places have the tides changing the other way around nowadays. You just don't hear or barely do hear about it because southeast asian countries are still developing and not affluent enough to advertise and project an image which says otherwise.

    I'm not talking about only in asia either, I'm talking about the rest of the planet, including the west.

    Some people like you forget that for the longest time, southeast asia has been a destination for female sex tourism before xfs thought about exploring korea for fun. Btw, most xfs from the past that sexpatted in southeast asia and new arrivals that sexpat in southeast asia during the present, are young and in their prime, just like how xfs that sexpat to korea tend to also be young and in their prime. Older and over the hill xfs tend to go to non-golden countries. Lol. Jba/jbg.

    [–]chinamancometh 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

    im old. late 30's but in college it was only AMWF. back then we didnt call it that though, it was like "oh yeah there goes another guy who is basically fucking 2-4 girls at the same time and of course he's asian". the non asian guys who dated asian girls were seen as losers and closet fags. the pretty asian girls were all with asian guys. asian guys had mad shade thrown at us back then but we were in such a minority that we never had a voice or understanding of what was going on.

    [–]TwerKing[S] 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Even though I largely grew up in the opposite side of the country where you were raised, it's fascinating how my observations are similar to yours. Changs slay from east coast all the way to the west coast.