When you're so straight that years later you come out as straight

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[–]Clown_Chan 9 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

A hetero MAN sexually attracted to women? omg so homosexual UwU

also, since when enjoying lesbian porn makes you a lesbian? Don't these absolute deluded morons know that almost all "lesbian" porn is made by hetero men, for hetero men and is being played by hetero women actresses ? Liking lesbian porn is actually the most MANLY and heterosexual thing in the world, lol

[–]LyingSpirit472 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

It's so much of a reach how people went from either lesbian porn/yaoi from "I like [opposite sex]. I would probably quite like to see two really hot [opposite sex] going at it" to "I like lesbian porn/yaoi, I must be that gender".

[–]Alienhunter糞大名 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Well if you ascribe to the porn addiction theory of trans identification it makes sense.

I think it's not so much the porn making them whatever but exasperating pre-existing issues, and when someone is a bit off or anti-social or has some other difficulty I think that the porn fantasy kind of supplants their reality.

I've talked to a few women with yaoi fetishes and it's not much different I think from the women who go full on into crappy romance novels. Gives them really unrealistic expectations of sex and what relationships entail and makes it harder for them to maintain normal relationships. With the trans stuff it typically goes along with really sexist stereotypes I think. Women feticizing gay men as "gentlemen" or some such as opposed to brutes or whatnot. If they've no clear handle on reality they start to think, "I want that kind of fictional relationship, therefore I must be gay".

The reason you don't understand why that makes sense is probably because you've got normal human relationships. If someone is autistic or otherwise socially handicapped I can see them making that jump of logic.

[–]LyingSpirit472 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I don't think you got what I was saying. Traditionally, it was like you were mentioning...but somewhere along the line it changed over to this way.

The "autistic or socially handicapped" thing doesn't even work for the jump of logic as much as the "autistic or social misfits are Tutorial mode for convincing someone to join a cult; they'll do anything to be accepted or fit in somewhere so even the smallest act of being cordial to them will make them do whatever you say, and they'll be obsessed with it to be the cult's most fervent believers."