Adult Baby/Diaper Lovers Face Harmful Stigma in Their Quest for Comfort

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[–]ihaveyourdress 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

You mean necessary stigma?

The thing about kink is, why are certain things okay if it's a sex thing?

"My boyfriend is abusive. He hit me!"

"Call 911!"

"But, it was during sex and we have a safeword."

"That's a normal healthy sexual relationship."

[–]Alienhunter糞大名 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Some people prefer rougher sex. It's like boxing I guess. You go around punching random people it's assault. You and the other side agree to the fight it's a sport.

The main problems with such things come from public acceptance I think and this just, utter lack of regard for thinking why such things are best not talked about too openly.

It's kinda like the weird open relationship stuff. I see these are largely matriarchal organizations, some weird girl has found a bunch of loser guys that have basically agreed to share this one girl in what appears to be a kind of time share situation. Very baffling and almost always ends up being a drama factory. But don't you dare criticize people in the modern era for their life choices or you're a biggot.

Hell I've criticized straight relationships constantly see it all the time, hey you think that guy might be a bad influence on you? I think you're going to have problems.

"Shut up you don't get to make decisions for me!"

Ok, I never said I did. Thanks for confirming my suspicions.

[–]Femaleisnthateful[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's kinda like the weird open relationship stuff.

'Open relationships' are so fucked up. An acquaintance of mine whose wedding I went to a few years ago is now in an 'open relationship' with a much older married colleague. I suspect her husband either doesn't know or was somehow railroaded into accepting it. She's withdrawn from most of her friends, it seems, and the whole thing just feels like a trainwreck waiting to happen. She's the kind of person who goes home from work if she gets any kind of negative feedback so I can't wait until the whole thing blows up in her face, she gets pregnant, etc.

To me, it's so plainly dysfunctional and selfish, but her generation has been training to think this is just another letter on the Special Person Alphabet and that she needs to be her True Self to be fulfilled.