If you want to claim it's dangerous for the child, then fucking remove them from the parents of course. If the child fears for their own safety from the parents then the child shouldn't be with them eh? But you let the kid go home with them anyway except with "our little secret that you are actually a boy" um that's retarded.

On the plus side with this one, it's so retarded that these people don't even realize that if these people really are grooming the kid, this would be a stone groove for the person doing it.

You think it's dangerous for this kid you're grooming to be with their parents and you let them stay with the parents, you know full well you're full of shit and there's no danger to the kid at home.

You DO try to get them removed from the parents, the teacher/groomer doing it gets a chance to completely knock the parents out of the picture for good. They can get the kid taken out of their custody, make it so the parents don't even have a chance to get the kid back and are forced away from them under threat of jail...and all you have to do is "this child needs a better house than foster care, I'll happily take control of them as a guardian" and you get to take control of the kid for good, with no hope of the parents being able to fight it. It's a completely legal way to kidnap the kid you're grooming and a way to elope with the object of your screwed up fantasies under your thumb forever, the parents being helpless to stop you.