It's also likely the endgame of how queerness no longer means anything. If people thought queerness meant something, then women who are afraid of relationships can just say that and get the vast majority of men to not ask any questions and not hit on them, but it's word salad enough that when they're ready, they can start having relationships and not have a problem.

However, as more and more people realize that queerness is spicy straight, the more and more men realize queerness is word salad and it doesn't mean the woman is off the market- so it gets closer to "put up or shut up" time for girls who aren't ready for relationships and who don't want to just say no to people to either cross the line and prove they're what they say they do, or prove they don't and lose the LGBTQ+ side and expect the deluge to start.