I know, right? I get the impression she's lying / exaggerating about a lot of these dates. Perhaps the guy ordered a black coffee and she was internally repulsed but stayed through the date and never called him back. I have a very hard time imagining that any woman is shallow and ridiculous enough that she'd walk out over how a guy takes his coffee. And if she is this particular, she'd be vetting her dates better. "Must use oat milk in every coffee you order".