I thought it wasn't a choice. These people can change their narrative at the drop of a hat.

There seems to be movement towards walking back the “born this way” narrative now that it has achieved what it was intended to (to make equal rights impossible to argue against). I suspect that it isn’t the gays walking it back but the Queer Theorists, because the born this way argument is bad for their trans arguments (it’s very obvious that trans is not innate) and the drive to “Queer” everything.