Sadly, most men put up with the abuse because it's been drilled into our heads to believe that when a man gets screwed over "it's his fault for being careless or stupid". Only a minority of men fall victim to the family court system, so the majority of men are clueless and simply think that those screwed-over men are at fault for "failing".

There is a genuine men's advocacy movement, but it has been hijacked by pick-up artists like Andrew Tate and closet cases like Jack Murphy. Much like how the gay rights movement was hijacked by feminists, trannies, communists and neoliberals. The end result is that a lot of well meaning men refuse to support genuine causes that will improve the lives of men who got fucked over by feminism, because those men do not want to be associated with charlatans.