Nah the goalpost moving is non-stop. If you show them studies that disprove the gendered brain stuff they'll just reorient to some unprovable, immeasurable metaphysical claim about "inner essence" that sounds like religion or spirituality but they expect to be treated as scientifically valid.

You could categorically refute any claims they have on a scientific basis. It doesn't matter. Narcissists gonna narcissist and continue to insist that the rules only apply to everyone else.