Yeah sounds rough, your take on it is probably right. Rarely in these cases can we say one side is innocent usually there's some kind of mutually insured destruction going on.

What's your take on the AGP progression though. My understanding is it's usually some kind of underlying fetish that's kept hidden but the man will essentially test the waters in the relationship so to speak and Arab and the Camel that shit until it's fully progressed to living the fetish 100% of the time, and probably dumping the desperate girl at the end of it for someone else after she's supported the transition. I remember there were these old sex change documentary shows back on lifetime or some other cable network god 20 years or so back and it was always some balding guy with a wife where something just seemed a bit off about her.