Yeah that's the difference, most people never think about it, and if they do it's usually sexual objectification. If I asked any guy what he'd do if he were a woman he'd say something like play with his breasts. That sounds really dumb to me, and doesn't he realize that would lose its appeal? You already mentioned what you would do if you swapped. But if it were me I would do...nothing different. I just wouldn't have to deal with this body anymore, and I'd be in a much better spot to do what I'm already trying to do.

FYI there are some women who work in construction. And please don't beat up your neighbors.