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[–]brimshaeBased Woodchipper Merchant 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I can't believe some of these comments are still allowed on reddit.

She's been absorbed into the toxic online trans culture. She's forgotten the real world, too exists and that people who aren't trans have feelings and lives and thoughts too...

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Yep, this can definitely happen. Especially if one is perpetually online. ... My girlboyfriend and I talk about this all the time. She is trans but specifically stays away from those spaces because of how toxic they can get (and echo chamber-y)... you should probably just end the relationship.

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it's okay to break up with your partner because of who they've become while transitioning

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My partner (MtF) of 10 years came out last November and only just started hormones but she's already expressed feeling dysphoria just at seeing relatively normal women basically exist in the world (seriously, like I'm talking getting depressed when we're out to eat bc she's worried she'll never look as feminine or pretty as the waitress

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My girlboyfriend transitioned over a decade ago and she still won't go outside except to work without having what she calls a spa day first. This is because of the dysphoria, imagine constantly hating the way you look to the point that you feel physically sick at the thought of a stranger seeing you.

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Imagine if she is still the same in 10 years. Is this the life you want? Are you just holding on to the hope that she will tone it way down and wasting years of your life that you could be living with someone who respects you? You want children, and that’s a huge thing, you need to be supported by your partner to achieve this.

[–]jacques1102 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Reading some of these comments,this is why i'm not convince that the majority of trans people are happy once they get surgery.It's possible that at first they might be,but as time goes by and they see real biological women haven't never taken any drugs or get pregnant they'll realize that they'll never truly be one.It's really amazing how this ideology has gotten this far.