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[–]Femaleisnthateful 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

There's no way forward expect for the OP to get a divorce. Any boundary she establishes or truth she tells will be read as 'transphobia'.

[–]IMissPorn 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I didn't see any mention of them being married, which will make things a little easier, legally if not emotionally.

[–]Haylstorm 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Which is why you need it from the start imo. The humouring makes it get pushed and pushed.

[–]Femaleisnthateful 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

We also need a culture that doesn't villify anyone who doesn't 'validate' a man's 'identity'.