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[–]Haylstorm 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

I mean the behaviour changes here just sound tiring. No one wants a partner that's a one issue all the time person. It was actually quite sad to read them watching the person their partner was slip away. She def should've shut some shit down well in advance though. I think that's what made it keep getting worse. The going along with it.

[–]ClassroomPast6178 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Yes, toleration can be read as encouragement by someone with problematic behaviours. Seems to be what has happened to society, whilst we were being tolerant, live and let live, you do you, none of my business, the fetishists got emboldened and now they’re unstoppable.

[–]Haylstorm 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

People push boundaries and when they don't find one they keep going. As a society we do need some hard lines imo. Otherwise eventually everything just ends up like...well this post.

[–]ClassroomPast6178 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The mistake might have been monetising the fight for equality. Once it became people’s source of income and prestige they were going to be very reluctant to declare victory, pack up and go home, especially when the actual hard bits of the fight (the bits with the personal risk and chance of failure) were over.

[–]Newzok 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Is personality change a hormone thing? I know testosterone changes people.

[–]Haylstorm 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Sounds like it was them falling down the rabbit hole of expected behaviour who developed a victim complex tbh.