PRIVILEGETransman learns about the real 'male privilege'™, and it sucks

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[–]Haylstorm 28 insightful - 2 fun28 insightful - 1 fun29 insightful - 2 fun -  (11 children)

That's only a culture shock if you're completely ignorant. As she's female she's a complete idiot for not knowing that's a thing when as a woman she'd've grown up with all the warnings about men. Same with the kinship thing, hello where have you been? Whenever men express emotions or affection they get called gay.

If you are unaware of this you literally live under a rock with no interaction with humans ever.

[–][deleted] 17 insightful - 2 fun17 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

If you are unaware of this you literally live under a rock with no interaction with humans ever.

Remember, a lot of these kinds of people were raised by the internet and social media. There's the very really possibility they live under a rock and have no interactions with humans outside Mommy/Daddy/maybe immediate family. I knew a few like this.They're the type that are a.) convinced there are no differences between males and females but simultaneously b.) want to transition/support transition for... some reason... even though there are supposedly no differences between males and females.

[–]Alienhunter糞大名 15 insightful - 2 fun15 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

Color me surprised someone who thinks they can change their gender doesn't understand fundamentals about human relationships along sex lines.

[–]Haylstorm 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Seriously though everyone knows men and women are socialised differently. Why are you surprised when that actually has an impact?

[–]Vulptexghost fox girl ^w^ 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Not that it should be this way, but it is because we live in a shitty matrix world.

[–]proc0 5 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 3 fun -  (4 children)

Most woke people are this ignorant precisely because of the ideology. They don't realize where reality begins or ends.

For example,

Whenever men express emotions or affection they get called gay.

Wokes see this a social conditioning instead of a consequence of male biology. It's similar to deer antlers, which exist to fight with other males, but also plays a role in their sexual selection because females probably select the deer with bigger antlers. Woke people are saying things like "antlers are a social construct, and male deers should be ok with having no antlers".

[–]Vulptexghost fox girl ^w^ 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

"Gender is a social construct, and transsexuals should be okay with having the wrong body."

[–]jet199 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

No one has the wrong body.

If you have a mental illness you need treatment for that, not surgery.

[–]Haylstorm 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's just incredibly stupid.

[–][deleted] 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (31 children)

They're subconsciously treating you as a predator, because they're picking up that something is up with you. We don't know if this person even passes. If they look female and cross dressing, that would explain it. As a 50 your old real man I don't experience this at all.

[–]agelmat 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Different generations. Boomers and gen x like yours had a more close knit and trusting communities.

Millennials and gen z males are living in the social media age, where there's no families, everyone is hyper competitive and most of us are poor af and won't make bank until our 30's. All the old institutions like gentlemen's clubs, societies, golf clubs, bars, etc are gone or reserved only for the wealthy.

We have no community and when there's no community, there's no one to trust.

[–][deleted] 14 insightful - 3 fun14 insightful - 2 fun15 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

Close knit and trusting? Lol no not in my life. We went outside way more, we hung around together outside, but there were fights and bickering and teasing. Maybe that's what you mean by "close knit". We were physically more social. But back then, if you were trolling people, you had to do it on the phone or in person, and if they knew who you were an ass kicking could happen.

We had massive divorce and neglect issues much of the time. Broken families didn't start with M and Z, it's been going on for decades now. I think the rise of feminism has something to do with it.

[–]RedEyedWarriorThe Evil Cishomo 8 insightful - 4 fun8 insightful - 3 fun9 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

I think the rise of feminism has something to do with it.

Bingo!

[–]RedEyedWarriorThe Evil Cishomo 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That is sad but true. Humans need communities. Including young men and teenage boys.

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    [–]RedEyedWarriorThe Evil Cishomo 8 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 2 fun -  (8 children)

    People don’t seem to perceive me as a predator either. For the record, I’m a 5’11” man in his mid-20s with broad shoulders and a beard. I am conscious of how I carry myself around people because of my poor balance. Sometimes I worry that a person who’s walking near me sees me as a threat, but so far nobody has felt scared around me.

    [–]Alienhunter糞大名 9 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

    I used to be more self conscious but I no longer care. I certainly won't do anything consciously to make others scared or uncomfortable but I'm not going to go out of my way to accommodate the paranoid anxiety some women suffer from. They need to stop being manphobes.

    [–]Greykittymomma 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

    As a woman it annoys me when others say "I can't even walk down the street at night" maybe YOU can't because you are delusional lady. Not every man is out to rape or rob you. Get a grip. I have had comments made but trust me I have walked alone at night in pretty "bad" neighborhoods. MIND YOUR BUSINESS and you should be fine 90% of the time!

    [–]Vulptexghost fox girl ^w^ 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    And they act like men don't feel the same way. They do, they're just not allowed to show it. Because they're the expendable vessel, so their needs are a burden in the collective's eyes, they only exist to slave for advancing the species and not to be real living humans. Real shitty world we live in.

    [–]RedEyedWarriorThe Evil Cishomo 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Based and redpilled.

    [–]jet199 8 insightful - 3 fun8 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

    I thought you were going to say you worry people might see you as a threat because you might suddenly fall on them.

    [–]RedEyedWarriorThe Evil Cishomo 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    People don’t think I’m going to attack them. I know that.

    [–]Vulptexghost fox girl ^w^ 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    I think you're probably just so used to it you don't notice.

    [–]BootsAndBeards 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    You probably just aren't aware of it. Quite a lot of women walking alone will feel kind of nervous around any young man. Not that there is much you can do about it besides quietly creating space, such as walking faster or slower or whatever if you are going in the same direction

    [–]wylanderuk 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    because they're picking up that something is up with you.

    Not always, they may have just bought into the bullshit "war on women" that feminism has been pushing for decades.

    As another 50 year old man it has most definitely happened to me.

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          [–]GrilledTofuIdentifying as a block of tofu[S] 14 insightful - 3 fun14 insightful - 2 fun15 insightful - 3 fun -  (35 children)

          If someone called you inherently stupid, suckers, shut up ect, would you be happy and want to be around that kind of person?

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            [–]jet199 15 insightful - 12 fun15 insightful - 11 fun16 insightful - 12 fun -  (18 children)

            Father of the year.

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              [–]Neo_Shadow_Lurker 10 insightful - 5 fun10 insightful - 4 fun11 insightful - 5 fun -  (2 children)

              You guys have no idea who I am or what I do.

              And that's a blessing.

              Thank the fucking Lord!

              You don’t know how much I give my kids.

              You glotead about your supposed sex life to strangers on the internet. That's literally, by definition, one of the most pathetic and immature things a person can do.

              Shit like this don't inspire much confidence on your parenting skills (if those kids exists, if).

              You are nasty horrible people, trash of society.

              Thank you!

              <3

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                [–]Neo_Shadow_Lurker 5 insightful - 7 fun5 insightful - 6 fun6 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

                Cope, seethe and don't forget to dilate!

                Good night, sweet prince!

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                      [–]Cass 8 insightful - 4 fun8 insightful - 3 fun9 insightful - 4 fun -  (9 children)

                      Hear me out. Perhaps the problem isn't that "men barely tolerate each other" but that people in general barely tolerate you because you're so shitty. From my irl observations shit people tend to be attracted to each other. This means that the solution for your problem is to search for other piles of shit to share your life with. You should stop multiplying tho.

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                        [–]FourteenDigitz 5 insightful - 8 fun5 insightful - 7 fun6 insightful - 8 fun -  (5 children)

                        Drop the tough guy act. You’re on a website with like 20 people. Nobody’s impressed.

                        [–]Airbus320 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

                        Xd

                        [–]GrilledTofuIdentifying as a block of tofu[S] 10 insightful - 7 fun10 insightful - 6 fun11 insightful - 7 fun -  (3 children)

                        I have several kids across the US.

                        That's it folks, we have the textbook definition of a narcissist deadbeat dad right here. Moving along.

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                          [–]FourteenDigitz 4 insightful - 6 fun4 insightful - 5 fun5 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

                          Lmao.

                          [–]Vulptexghost fox girl ^w^ 4 insightful - 4 fun4 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 4 fun -  (4 children)

                          Women act spoiled because we spoil them, it's that simple. Now it's deep in our instincts to do this and also to sacrifice the men, and this is yet another fact of nature we need to overcome.

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                            [–]Vulptexghost fox girl ^w^ 3 insightful - 5 fun3 insightful - 4 fun4 insightful - 5 fun -  (2 children)

                            But I will. Women need to step up and take some responsibility and stop putting all their burdens on men, especially since they get all the same privileges as men plus extra. And men need to stop encouraging that behavior. And if possible sex should be abolished entirely, because it is an oppressive design, but it's unfortunately a real thing and not a social construct.

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                              [–]Greykittymomma 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

                              I don't watch either. I watch things that are actually entertaining.

                              [–]Neo_Shadow_Lurker 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (3 children)

                              I have several kids across the US.

                              I think we found Ethan Ralph's saidit account!

                              Hey, answer me one thing: how does it feel to be the literal definition of white trash?

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                                [–]FourteenDigitz 4 insightful - 4 fun4 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 4 fun -  (1 child)

                                L m a o

                                [–]GrilledTofuIdentifying as a block of tofu[S] 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

                                It appears that you are all the same person, or you all are working in concert.

                                This is another sign of a narcissistic personality disorder. "Everyone else is wrong, everyone else is a bot, I am the only correct shining human being"

                                Tldr this person is sick beyond recognition and won't seek help because he doesn't believe he needs help. Toxic AF, delusional, stay the hell away. Flex the block button.

                                [–]Airbus320 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

                                Nein

                                [–]GrilledTofuIdentifying as a block of tofu[S] 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

                                Exactly. That's why no respectable woman would put up with that guy, and those who do were the ones so broken inside she ticks all his hate checkboxes. He can only get the women he hates.

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                                          [–]womanisnotafeeling 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

                                          maybe that's the reason you keep hating on women, deep down you know no one in their right mind would love you. so you just pretend

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                                            [–]FourteenDigitz 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

                                            That’s it, walk away as soon as you get slapped. That’s what a real man does, after all

                                            [–]jet199 9 insightful - 3 fun9 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

                                            Grass is always greener is a bit issue for women.

                                            You'd think lesbians would have pretty stable relationships, given lesbian bed death, how little women initiate, etc. But no lesbians have far more affairs and over all sexual partners than straight women.

                                            The dynamic is not that they just screw anonymously around like gay men. Rather they steal each others partners. They get jealous of other women's relationships and wreck them. Then it turns out the grass isn't greener and start eying up someone else's wife.

                                            [–]Vulptexghost fox girl ^w^ 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

                                            Isn't the grass is always greener thing an issue for everyone?

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                                            My niece is a lesbian who became one after a failed heterosexual marriage. She's had plenty of abusive, dysfunctional female partners. I don't know about now though.

                                            [–]Neo_Shadow_Lurker 8 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 2 fun -  (5 children)

                                            Women are just inherently stupid.

                                            The AGPs that pop up everyday on posts here show otherwise, but carry on.

                                            And it because they are suckers for the grass is always greener on the other side. Like fuck, your parents never played for alone for you as a kid?

                                            Again, MtFs are a textbook example of this with all of their muh sleepovers, muh full-body orgasms and I want to be a little slutty girl

                                            Trying to pin this kind of childish behavior only on women is to deny reality.

                                            [–]TigerFoo 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

                                            What a fucking idiot. Men are just inherently stupid. And it because they are suckers for the grass is always greener on the other side. Like fuck, your parents never played for alone for you as a kid?

                                            Fucking sitting there linking being a woman is some kind of cake walk. While you are literally a coddled rooster. Women hardly tolerate each other. And we are all ready to fight at a moments notice. We are only friends with other women who we know, and can morally vouch for and trust.

                                            Men are clicking roosters. And they really need to shut up.

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                                              [–]TigerFoo 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

                                              Nah, just pointing out how retarded you are.

                                              [–]jet199 9 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

                                              If you want friends you have to be a good friend.

                                              Women will talk to you and be sympathetic but that's not the same as being their friend.

                                              [–]RedEyedWarriorThe Evil Cishomo 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (8 children)

                                              The grass is always greener. And the leg skin can never get an erection. Best of luck to this woman, who is being lied to by society.

                                              [–]Vulptexghost fox girl ^w^ 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (7 children)

                                              I think the grass is greener but I don't care, I'd switch sexes even if it put me at a social disadvantage, because at least I'd be able to live with myself.

                                              [–]BluuDegenerate 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

                                              You can't switch sex. Nobody can or ever has. Fucking up the only body you'll ever have will NOT make you happier. If you can't live with yourself then you need help not butchery

                                              [–]Vulptexghost fox girl ^w^ 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (5 children)

                                              But there's no help for this. And I don't think I can live with butchery and pretend either. The only cure is death.

                                              [–]GrilledTofuIdentifying as a block of tofu[S] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

                                              Dude, you need psychiatric help. Professional psychiatric help. There are non wokes out there. If you spot one that's woke, immediately cancel the appointment or make a stance that you will not change genders

                                              All your problems are based on self loathing. Fixing that self loathing should also make the dysphoria go away.

                                              Although not dysphoria, i hated nyself. My doc told me that "if you're stuck with someone for life on a journey, isn't it better to make them your best friend instead of constantly fighting? You will have a smoother trip accepting that other person instead of constantly arguing and sabotaging them. That other person is you. You have to accept yourself, because you're the only one going to be there for the rest of your life."

                                              This whole transistioning shit is another example of rejecting or running away from that self. I think a lot of dysphoria comes with the conflict with this inner self too.

                                              [–]Vulptexghost fox girl ^w^ 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

                                              I do loathe myself, but if that were the cause it wouldn't have existed before I loathed myself, I could try to be a different male, and I'd be worried about the social role rather than the biological.

                                              But I am beyond accepting myself at this pojnt anyway. And if you live according to the flesh you will die.

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                                                [–]LtGreenCo 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

                                                It made me realize there is no inherent camaraderie in male socialization

                                                There's plenty of camaraderie between men. Problem is the men in your life either know you're actually a woman, or they sense something is off about you, so you'll likely never experience that camaraderie.

                                                [–]hfxB0oyADon't piss on my head & tell me it's raining. 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

                                                Yep. This chick is shunned by men because they don't want to hang out with some chick who thinks a ballcap and a 14-year-old boy mustache makes her male, and the women - well, same reason!

                                                [–]ClassroomPast6178 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

                                                I read about a social experiment that was done almost 20 years ago and it is quite eye opening.

                                                A feminist lesbian disguised herself as a man for 18 months and infiltrated male spaces (a bowling team, a therapy group, a monastery, even going on first dates with women as a man) and found that all the preconceived notions about men, their “privilege”, the way they socialise and act and even the topics of conversation when amongst men, were wrong.

                                                She also discovered that wearing the disguise and pretending to be a man screwed her up psychologically which was also an interesting observation.

                                                [–]Vulptexghost fox girl ^w^ 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

                                                It's because we have men conditioned to fear any connection with feminity, including the mere presence of women, unless it's for sexual purposes.

                                                [–]LtGreenCo 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

                                                I don't know. My dad passed away when I was 2 so I grew up in a household with all women (mother & 2 sisters) and still, I've always connected better socially with men. I don't fear a connection with femininity; I am just not really interested in femininity. So while I'm sure cultural conditioning plays a part, I also think nature does too.

                                                [–]Vulptexghost fox girl ^w^ 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

                                                It's not from the father, it's from the world. And you in fact said you aren't afraid of it; 99% of men are, even if they secretly like it, necause it's considered so shameful. Liberation from gender restrictions for women, but men are still obligated to theirs.

                                                [–]waggleburrito 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

                                                Self Made Man should be required reading for people wanting to transition to male.

                                                [–][deleted] 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

                                                There's no transitioning to the opposite sex, there's just disguise via hormones and genetics. Style comes into it too, but they'll never be the opposite sex no matter what they do. They'll be treated as such if the win the genetic lottery and pass a la buck angel or someone like that.

                                                [–]Vulptexghost fox girl ^w^ 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (4 children)

                                                Even then it's still a disguise. The only real cure for gender dysphoria is death, which is why the suicide rate is so high.

                                                [–]Alienhunter糞大名 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

                                                Hardly. But you won't find a medical cure for what is ultimately not the sort of thing easily fixable by a doctor. Same reason why you won't ever find a pill that cures addiction.

                                                Doesn't mean you can't move past it, or learn to live with it in a way that you are comfortable with

                                                [–]Vulptexghost fox girl ^w^ 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

                                                But when you have to live with so many of these things that life is impossible to enjoy, what's even the point? I go to bed every night hoping that day was the last one. I just got dealt a bad hand and there's not much I can do. And so has 95% of the world, even though us first-worlders don't really see it. This is why the universe is inherently evil.

                                                [–]Alienhunter糞大名 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

                                                Sounds like normal run of the mill depression to me.

                                                There's no easy cure. Maybe go outside more. Use less internet. Go run a marathon or work out at the gym. Releases chemicals in the brain that makes most people happier. If all that doesn't work it might be reasonable to use depression meds but that's something to be used last.

                                                We all get dealt bad hands from time to time and it's not equal at all some get far worse than others. But you've gotta play with the hand you've got. Game can still be fun even if you aren't winning. Just have to find that.

                                                [–]Vulptexghost fox girl ^w^ 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

                                                Game can still be fun even if you aren't winning.

                                                Yeah well this isn't one of them

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                                                  [–]ShekelPa 5 insightful - 4 fun5 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

                                                  She will navigate it by 40%ing herself real soon.

                                                  [–]womanisnotafeeling 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

                                                  do you know why this person didn't ecperience anything she thought she would when she'd "become a man"? because she is not a man, never will be

                                                  [–]Cass 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

                                                  Okay, so. The Iliad. What really grinds my gears is the hordes of retards and wokers who think that Achilles couldn't have been sad his cousin Patroclus died unless he was ass banging him. I think this is called toxic masculinity or something. Not a new thing either.

                                                  edit: I'm so annoyed by this that I bring it up every chance I have

                                                  [–]proc0 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

                                                  Just have them do a grip contest with any male that is relatively healthy. If, as the guy, you are not careful you could literally crush their hand. I don't know what it is about grip, but there is a tangible difference biologically, even without lifting weights. If you also lift weights, it's like shaking hands with a toddler.

                                                  [–]hfxB0oyADon't piss on my head & tell me it's raining. 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

                                                  "You know how badly this would have fucked my mind up if I had grown up with this?"

                                                  And yet she will insist that she has retroactively always been male. Sure, honey.

                                                  [–]Greykittymomma 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

                                                  Actually it does make sense... um hear of any female school shooters? Yet we still won't help boys.