Throw in the "for all the problems incels have, they make it painfully clear how you can control them and flat-out say 'if you promise me a crumb of coochie in return, I will literally take a bullet for you'" factor, and it's very easy to use the carrot and stick method to women's advantage for a sex strike.

I dunno, lets ask our resident incel. Hey u/yabbit, would you still be an incel if you were willing to fuck old fuggo fatties?