How do they even know who they can be attracted to? I mean, realistically, these labels are very narrow and until someone carefully explains to this individual what labels they fit under, since words mean nothing and a bearded man can say he's the most womanly woman ever and everyone has to believe him...it seems to me that any 'attraction' they feel, if going by their own rules, must be predicated on what other people say they are even if it has no basis whatsoever in reality.