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[–]Gigababejfl 6 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

I loved reading your writing and a lot of the women did too. I was just thinking about this last night how so much of our insights, thoughts, frustrations were removed without care.

I have the domain and speaking to a few people to help get our forum running. I want to make it so this never happens to us again. I'm wondering if any of the writing is archived anywhere online. I know some of the super creep moids on Reddit were tracking certain users including me but lol, I don't want to engage.

At least if we had archives, we could move femcel writing to the new site. That's the core of what brought us together. Some women I spoke to recently explained this is why we as women need to learn to help ourself and not be relying on men and co. We had no reason to believe our internet home would be wiped out. I am hoping we manage to rebuild and it be the true escape we always intended it to be

[–]vcardthrow1[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I'm really grateful you're here and created this, I'm just so sad because in the last few years, it just seems hard to keep these spaces going given that people will drift away inevitably. It's a next-level loss when that community is wiped away and its archives are lost with it.

[–]Gigababejfl 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I can only hope you choose to post on our new site because one thing is true. When we recognize each other in our writings, more of us come. There is nothing more compelling that that familiar heartache, the despair, the female trap of it. There was such a peace in knowing we were all making the online pilgrimage to a familiar place. I never really thought about the ethics of online behavior but to me, it was wrong to do this to the women here. Men have these dank holes of horrible, horrible messaging and they at least were given quarantine

Femcel *skittles are perpetual but at least we can and will recover. We must. And we will write more. And it will last.

[–]poutymagic 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I am able to see some posts. Go to google and search site:reddit.com/r/trufemcels When you look at the results click the upside down triangle and click cached and you can read some posts. u/gigababejfl

[–]jet199 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

I think GC managed to find most of their stuff archived.

Maybe ask them how they did it.

[–]Gigababejfl 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I'll ask around although I feel like back in the summer some of them were saying they started archiving prior to the ban. I could be wrong. Here's hoping. We have some gems.

[–]discountwalmart 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Fuck Reddit.

[–]poutymagic 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

I tried looking at one archive of the subreddit, you can only see a little bit: https://web.archive.org/web/20201229231517/reddit.com/r/trufemcels

Removeddit and Ceddit didn't turn anything up for me.

[–]Gigababejfl 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

How very typical for us to be overlooked for stacy subreddits

😩

It never began

[–]mongre 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

Reddit was compromised YEARS ago and you went along with it, your entire community watched it happen yet you logged in every day, continued to contribute, knowing they were lynching subs for wrongthink.

Now you want to bitch?

Not only that but you want to come to this board now and use it as your podium to whine about it when it finally happened to you? Whatever. This IS a free speech platform and whining about reddit is the subject dujour.

I personally would prefer your entire sub to go somewhere YOU create and YOU moderate instead of polluting this site with anti-men rhetoric and input from women who choose to argue for separation. I don't miss the attacks against men and the undermining of conversation your group seems so skilled at. Go complain somewhere that welcomes the dumpster fire conversations that come with "any"-cel. Incel, femcel whatever... I was personally glad to leave you all on Reddit.

[–]vcardthrow1[S] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Why am I responsible for the evils of reddit? I don't follow hate threads about Ellen Pao and I don't think think there should be an absence of moderation. Women have gotten plenty of death threats for posting in our own subs though, for the years I've posted in women's spaces. In years on reddit. FAW was tormented for a full year.

"I personally would prefer your entire sub to go somewhere YOU create and YOU moderate instead of polluting this site with anti-men rhetoric and input from women who choose to argue for separation." ....What?

"I don't miss the attacks against men and the undermining of conversation your group seems so skilled at." Men have valid reasons to feel threatened by conversations of feminism in the workplace, in universities, even in conversations about violence. But I've never believed otherwise. Not sure who you're talking about. Criticism of behavior that's shitty in humans doesn't make a sub a "male hate sub".

These comment makes no sense to me at all.

"Incel, femcel whatever... I was personally glad to leave you all on Reddit." Then why are you in the skeleton of what this community has left?

I don't care if you were a femcel or you're just a pissed off outsider...fuck off. Your whole comment is just angry gibberish to me.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Don't read things that upset you. And we don't hate men. Most of us would crawl over broken glass to get a man to love us lol. Sorry you have such hatred for us. I wish you the best in life. ❤

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I keep thinking about this too. There were so many relatable posts and now they're gone.

[–]Airbus320 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I miss beckycel

[–]Booky 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

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[–]dylanhodgson 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

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