After 11 years together, my husband came out as trans and is now my wife. We are both happier.

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[–]jet199Terf 8 insightful - 4 fun8 insightful - 3 fun9 insightful - 4 fun -  (3 children)

To be really cynical I wonder if she's happy because her husband no longer asks for sex because he's now obsessed with himself instead. We all know how the sex drive goes for most married women.

[–][deleted] 4 insightful - 5 fun4 insightful - 4 fun5 insightful - 5 fun -  (2 children)

Maybe it has reinvigorated their bedroom, having all that steamy lesbian sex with her husband.

[–]jet199Terf 4 insightful - 4 fun4 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 4 fun -  (1 child)

Scissoring?

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Sure, scissoring his dick off, strap ons, dildos, the works for his anus.

[–][deleted] 5 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 3 fun -  (6 children)

Also, https://www.insider.com/when-my-partner-transitioned-genders-people-asked-me-weird-questions-2022-7

At least she's getting stories out of it.

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    [–]JasonCarswell 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

    What ever happened to "fem" and "butch" being adequate descriptors of people that weren't "normal"?

    [–][deleted]  (3 children)

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      [–][deleted] 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

      Ah yes, this whole shit circus is the fault of..... lesbians. Because everyone cares so much what they think and they've always been so highly respected in our society, of course the dudes in dresses are doing this because of some shit lesbians said.

      [–]JasonCarswell 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

      Can't a guy be fem?
      Can't he be so fem he passes for a woman - or tries to? If he wants, or if he doesn't.
      Can't a woman be butch without being lesbian?

      Rules on words is cultural weaponization.

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        [–][deleted] 9 insightful - 3 fun9 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

        She doesn't look happy in the picture. And the husband looks creepy. She wrote that now that her husband is crossdressing in public and feeling euphoric that he's spending so much more time with their young girls.

        I hope she has nanny cams.

        [–]IkeConn 5 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

        I'll be glad when this gay tranny fad is over and done with.

        [–][deleted] 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

        Amen.

        [–][deleted] 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (6 children)

        In this moment, xe is euphoric, not because of any phony god's blessing, but because xe is loaded with recreational estrogen.

        [–][deleted] 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (5 children)

        What is with this obsession with euphoria? When I used to take kratom that's one of the qualities people reviewed their purchases on, its euphoria. I think they're conflating being high with something positive. People aren't supposed to go around feeling euphoric. I don't think you can be euphoric all the time even if you wanted to. Law of diminishing returns, the high doesn't last forever.

        [–]jet199Terf 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

        You should feel euphoric when you've achieved something or are with loved ones. Feeling have an evolutionary purpose. Now people want euphoria on demand and don't want to do anything to earn it.

        [–][deleted] 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

        Now people want euphoria on demand and don't want to do anything to earn it.

        Happiness in a needle. Generally it's considered a bad thing for a good reason.

        [–]JasonCarswell 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

        5-htp may help a little.

        [–]jet199Terf 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

        I've been taking that for ten years.

        This is the result.

        [–]JasonCarswell 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

        Sarah Tonin-Precursor, nice to meet you.

        [–]SerpensInferna 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

        These always read like hostage videos. "This is great, everything is great, I am so happy."

        [–]BTV 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

        Oh geeze