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https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/pieces-mind/201207/radical-acceptance .

Either change it or radically accept it. It is "radical" bc. the aim is to not waste any energy anymore on "solving" the "problem".

There are many more "solutions" to this one but i will let you think about them for yourself.