Insular Incels.

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[–]JasonCarswell[S] 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (19 children)

I didn't even know what an incel was until I saw a post. Then commented, without malice. Months ago. I don't know why I got banned (and then got pissed), unbanned, and now banned again (for some reason).

I wasn't going to start a war, much less a pyramid war whatever that is. I saw some of their posts, was going to respond with some hopeful tips, and then found it was an incel sub and I was banned (again, for no reason again).

I'm starting to wonder if most of their posts are rhetorical questions, "Why can't I get some?" etc.

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    [–]JasonCarswell[S] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

    Elliot Rodger

    Dang. That's some serious mental illness. (Though I suspect that was a psyop too.)

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      [–]JasonCarswell[S] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

      Damn.

      Well I can tell you from experience, suicide by cop in Canada doesn't work. That was one of my attempts during my fog. My problem was not incel related. It was Big Pharma lies, deception, fraud, scientism related.

      That's a good reason to force the Incels to be open to discussion, not to let them spiral down into a puddle of self pitty, rage, and violence.

      [–][deleted] 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (14 children)

      They're trying to have rules that pretty much say no advice no suggestions, and I figure they should be allowed to do so. Kind of an anti-debate rule, but they are historically harassed and give the rules up front. We've encouraged them strongly to use our 3 strikes policy, and not to instant ban.

      [–]JasonCarswell[S] 5 insightful - 4 fun5 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 4 fun -  (13 children)

      A perverted echo chamber for masturbataurally whining to circular fuzzy logic with a moist juicy center.

      "My life sucks."

      "I wish my life sucks."

      "I wish I got sucks."

      "I wish my socks were sex."

      "Now my socks are messed up."

      "My life is messed up."

      Rinse. Repeat. No debate. No advice. No growth. No manning up.

      Didn't know what that was all about. Don't really want to now. I'll steer clear.

      Didn't know about the 3 strikes.

      [–][deleted] 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (12 children)

      Rinse. Repeat. No debate. No advice. No growth. No manning up.

      Yep. I feel bad for the older folks there, but for teenagers and shit trying to figure it all out still, maybe it's a good therapy group for them. I donno.

      [–]JasonCarswell[S] 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (9 children)

      Maybe maybe not. I feel bad for anyone who got an unfair deal. Stuck in a wheelchair. An ugly girl. Blind. You name it. Incels too. IMO the younger ones haven't lived enough to give up and resign to a lame echochamber like that where they won't get better without motivating helpful advice. Sprialling down leads to psycho killer mentality. It's not therapy if it's not helping.

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        [–]JasonCarswell[S] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (5 children)

        Very insightful. I guess cults, or tribalism, is inherently human nature.

        If more people could actually attend Burning Man, I think they'd find it, like most folks who actually see for themselves, an anti-cult cult. Everyone is welcome, everyone gets a "backstage pass", and you make of it what you want to make of it, rather than be told what to think. The uncult. Plus it's a huge art festival.

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          [–]JasonCarswell[S] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

          As much as tribalism?

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            [–][deleted] 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

            Yes, fair. Lets call it a safe space rather than therapy.

            [–]JasonCarswell[S] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

            True enough. Every cult/tribe need their safe space.

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              [–][deleted] 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

              Yes there is some of that, but there's a lot that's not that. If you see threats of violence report them to us and we'll act.