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[–]JasonCarswell[S] 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Dancing of all sorts. I like to freestyle especially to funk house, brostep, and glitch-hop and music festivals, but there's so much more out there to explore - from formal to casual, genre specific, to freeform.

There's no shortage of things to do.

First thing is to throw away all the preconceptions of all the "women's work". Sewing does not mean making lacey doilies. Gardening (farming) does not mean only dainty flowers. Cooking and baking does not require being barefoot and pregnant.

Join political groups (ie. The Green Party), join local community efforts (clean up the river or playgrounds), etc. If they don't exist, start them.

Fuck the online dating if it doesn't work for you. Make flyers and post them around town - in real life. Start your own community singles dating group thang.

Sports doesn't always need a ball, nor need to be competitive. Hiking, biking, sailing, skiing, camping, etc.

Historical societies are always around somewhere. Learn shit and impress the ladies who would be impressed. Maybe participate in some historical recreations.

Chicks dig video games too. And reading books. And productions (music, plays, filmmaking, cinemaphiles, vlogs, etc). And roleplaying / costumes. If you don't have a style consider finding one. For example, maybe you like the Rockabilly aesthetic and maybe there's a Tiki Bar with horseshoes...

I could on but I'm boring myself.