/u/magnora7 needs to take a step back and critically examine the site culture. IMO, it has taken a rapid and steep nosedive since theameliamay was invited to moderate.
We have huge dramas, public fights between tam and users, ban waves, endless [removed] turning up, when the links and posts are completely in line with saidit rules.
There is a way to moderate - with a light hand, but firm boundaries, or there is this totalitarian abuse of power.
I ask you, m7. Who is in your head. what voices do you listen to. Who feeds your paranoia and fear? I'm betting that tam has got her narcissitic fingers in your head and is fucking you, jsut like trannies the globe over fuck with existing public forums and twist them to suit their own personal agendas.
tam lies. he gaslights. he attacks, he divides. He is transforming this site into a splintered fight, when we used to at least tolerate each other.
Having tranny mods is always a mistake, no exceptions. The entire 'i have a dick but it is a girl's dick' mental gymnastics precludes them for ever being in touch with reality.
I get that I'm on my way out. you attack me, m7, as a default. You are far down the road of no return, but before you silence my voice, like SO MANY OTHERS think about whether this purging of voices is what you originally envisioned when you started saidit. Because my money is on: It isn't.
Cue the thought control proponents and low effort NPC trolls supporting tam and the censorship.
Oh. when I started to write this, I was just going to re-post the last post that tam deleted, which was just a psa to inform users that [removed] means a mod censor removed the post, and [deleted] means the user did. I found it helpful, as it was information I didn't know, but apparently the rest of us are not allowed to see that info any more.