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[–]Jesus-Christ 11 insightful - 6 fun11 insightful - 5 fun12 insightful - 6 fun -  (2 children)

I didn't read this but just realised Muskrat dated a 36yr old at 17, and for that he has my respect. When I was 16 I used to mingle with a 24yr old, I was old enough to know the consequences at the time and I don't regret what I did. It was hardly "manipulative", there are some instances where people from different ages just click and shit happens. Though I will say that society seems to give less of a shit when the roles are reversed, as guys are basically seen as down-to-fuck the second they reach their teens, and most of us are tbh.

I looked a lot older at the time too (was basically growing beards since 14) so a lot of people seemed to mistake me for someone older. She did know my age but I definitely didn't look prepubescent or anything. So it's not like she was attracted to me because I looked like a child.

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👊 Fuck yeah, I am proud of it. It was a turning point in my life. Before that I thought I'd was just going to be alone forever. She showed me that I was worthy of love. Huge confidence boost.

I had a beard too at the time. Still do, but then too. I still get carded when I shave, pre covid I did anyways.

[–]Jesus-Christ 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Glad to hear it man, I also felt similarly at the time. I almost couldn't believe any of it were happening because I was so down and out of it just thinking I'd find nobody up until she appeared.