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[–]jet199 5 insightful - 5 fun5 insightful - 4 fun6 insightful - 5 fun -  (3 children)

She wasn't attracted to you because you liked like a child but likely because you were easier to manipulate and keep than an adult.

That's one of the main drivers for paedos who target teens even though they may go on about the looks, they want control of the relationship and thereby over another human being. This is why paedos who target teens are actually more likely to be psychopaths than those who target pre pubescent children so I'm some ways they are more dangerous.

[–]Jesus-Christ 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

Tbh I think she was just lonely and dumb (very impulsive), I honestly don't think there was any malice behind her intentions. But I ended up leaving her anyway and it (thankfully) didn't negatively impact me either way.

[–]jet199 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

Wanting control often doesn't start with malice but insecurity.

[–]Jesus-Christ 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I do agree with what you're saying but it's hard to explain what a relationship was like to someone that never saw it. So like even if she genuinely wasn't trying to manipulate me, it's hard to prove that.