We could write 1000 pages of rules

As someone that used to study Torah and interpretations for 8 hours a day, yes yes I do. I'd be happy to give further opinions, but I'm going to assume you aren't interested? I agree covering every possible scenario would be impossible, I just think you're making an appeals to extreme logical fallacy, or to phrase it differently "We can't make rules to cover every scenario where we would warn or ban, so why should we have a written rules list at all?"

Just post quality things!

There's no shortage of places to post my thoughts online, you have competition. If I'm alone in thinking you have gone too far to have a major rule described in half a sentence then so be it. All the best to you.

I do want to make a post on s/incels about my concerns, and alternatives to consider for the few of us that remain. As of right now my post will be about not trusting you to protect us as I think you failed to protect pedo speech despite making promises you would imo. I'm aware you don't think you did anything wrong, and if I'm crazy no one of value will be lost anyway.