We're not toxic

Usually communities like yours are keen on repeating the same old tale of "world outside full of evil and dangerous people that hate you". That is a trick used by sects to keep their flock under control. And "we provide a place where the downtrodden can find brothers and a sense of community. " is a part of that strategy. "Outside they will hate you and shame you, but here, inside, you are with brothers. So stay."

Im not necessary implying that particularly your incel community does all that, or that incels are sectants, but if someone is being an "incel" cause of some temporary problems that he can easily solve and he becomes a part of your community there is a big chance that he wont try to solve his problems and instead will blame society for all his failures.

kill us.

Who the fuck is trying to kill you?

we constantly disagree with each other (see the height>face debate)

Lol

Young people come seek us out when searching for answers and then they stay because nothing they hear from anyone else makes sense.

Yea, normies are often too retarded to give any proper explanation.

The Blackpill theory of human relationship dynamics does the best job of explaining the real world data we have.

Never in the history of science statistics where intentionally misinterpreted to push an agenda.

Edit: also in addition to my first point: repeating negative thoughts over and over again is pretty fucking toxic in my book.