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[–]takavoid513 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

During or near the End of college/uni. The reason for your Negative experiences compound and all those bad times tend to be answered by your lack of desirability and at some point you realize the thought of your being unattractive that has been suppressed all those years was right.

[–]greybeard 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I still confusedly remember all the feelings of social failure when my rank in the hierarchy as a low value man got established while still being kinda hopeful somehow that it eventually will get better.

I got the causality totally backwards, I thought I just need to get a gf and then people will respect me lol