The final game

submitted by greybeard from self.RealIncels

There are few things I have experienced in my time on Earth that conjure up the same Lovecraftian horror as realizing one's place as a loser in the heterosexual dating market. In every other avenue of life the barbarity of the state of nature has been culled if not banished entirely by the advances of modern society. Here there are no rules except win. There is no consolation for losing. There is no government program which you can ask for assistance. There is no incel studies department at the local university attempting to solve your issues even in theory. There is only you, your personal assets, and the reality of evolutionary biology staring you in the face.

I know of no other area for which acquiring greater knowledge and understanding of the subject does not decrease psychological distress, but rather increases it. There is no bijection between the set of all men and the set of all women which satisfies the Nash equilibrium. r and K don't match. Someone has to lose.

No one cares. Why would they? The only people who could help are winners, and they'd be winning less if they helped you. Cthulhu was there the whole time, hidden. Now he's awake. Tick-tock tick-tock tick-tock.

That was I random quote I found on my computer, I don't know the source anymore.

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[–]AnimeRespecter 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

There are few things I have experienced in my time on Earth that conjure up the same Lovecraftian horror as realizing one's place as a loser in the heterosexual dating market.

It's important to specify that this applies to males who're unsuccessful in the romantic marketplace.

[–]greybeard[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I think women feel something similar when they realize they are childless and their eggs have run out. But at least they had plenty of years of fun until then.

[–]takavoid513 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Quite true. The garbage news articles i have seen femoids read shows women in their 40-60's and even beyond banging young chads and such.

[–]iamonlyoneman 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (10 children)

Sounds like a real loser mentality. If uggos and stupids can pull women anyone can.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Exactly.

[–]AnimeRespecter 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (8 children)

wrong. There are outliers to the rules, but the rules exist all the same. Also being stupid has nothing to do with your ability to pull or womens attraction to you.

[–]iamonlyoneman 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (7 children)

You're right it doesn't that's what I meant. Incels' problem is incels' attitudes and no amount of *maxxing will ever fix that except for psychologymaxxing which is generally derided

[–]AnimeRespecter 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

what does the attitude have to do with it. When incels say it's over, or that it never began they're simply acknowladging the truth

[–]iamonlyoneman 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

The point is it's never over because you can change an attitude on the spur of a moment. Over is a loser mentality.

[–]AnimeRespecter 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

that doesnt make sense. I asking why the attitude have to do with our inability to get women, which you just didn't answer.

[–]iamonlyoneman 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

because the attitude is the beginning and ending of the problem

If you were a guy who sold custom belts for a living and someone came to your shop and was constantly talking shit about your belts, how they were trash and terrible and never fit anyway, why would you go out of your way to treat him better than a customer who came in raving about how good your belts are?

[–]AnimeRespecter 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

terrible analogy. women don't know we're incels when we approach them. We're complete strangers to them so all they know is that we're short/ugly. also women prefer not to be with shorter men even if thats short isn't a blackpilled person.

[–]iamonlyoneman 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

It takes literally a glance to see someone's attitude LOL

[–]AnimeRespecter 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

And yet women keep sleeping with manipulative, abusive men with anger issues. Methinks women may not actually have personality detectors.

[–]Mazurro 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

There is no bijection between the set of all men and the set of all women which satisfies the Nash equilibrium.

If life of an incel was a game you describe, it can't be considered zero value game. It's not like you get compensation for lack of social life. It's in negatives only and you only can decide, where you lose harder and where you lose less, but that's pretty much it.

[–]greybeard[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yes, somebody has to lose. Women can lower the total quantity of losing by losing a bit themselves, but the nature of the reproduction game precludes a happy ending for everyone.